Its not always what it seems

So we go through our life meeting new people and getting to know them, and letting them into our life. I understand as time goes some people come and some people go. As your life changes so do your friends, but there are few who stay forever. There are few you try hard to keep but for some reason you are not as important to them as you thought. I know that getting married, brings changes and separation from some of your friends, and then having kids brings a bigger gap. Growing older, interests change, moving, jobs...everything can effect a once friendship you thought would last forever. You can try to keep in touch, but you can only try so hard and if the effort is not returned, there nothing you can do.

Its just sad when those friends were there through the most important times in your life, and don seem to care Its sad when they don't realize how much you value the friendship you once had. It's sad to close a door on something that was so special. The truth is though that it must have been gone a while ago.

I have some of the BEST friends in the world, and I have some friends that I wish I would try harder to keep in touch with. Then there are those friends that were so good and special but don't realize that its gone. The friendship that was once cherished is no longer there.

I promise to keep those I have not lost so much more closer and to let them know everyday how much they mean to me. I promise to try harder for the friends that try hard. I promise this year is about keeping in touch to the ones who keep in touch back. I promise to let the ones go who no longer try.

Keeping Busy

So Guys...I have been horrible about this, but I promise to get better!!

So with the new year starting, we have become very busy. Jaydons in school and the registration Process for Kindergarten is extremely difficult here. There is a overcrowding in the School district. We are one of the top rated schools in the area, even better then some private schools. So I guess I get why, it just make enrolling very hard, they cant guarantee where your child will go. We have been to meetings and focus groups trying to solve the problem and hopefully we will know something more at the end of the month. Our district also offers 5 magnet school within the district, which we are hoping to get Jaydon into one of those, that is a district transfer AND only chosen on a lottery. So we will see what happens. Once Jaydon starts Kindergarten Bryce will start Preschool. I am looking forward to having 3 day to myself in the fall. Maybe I can get my errands done without the kids and reserve the rest of the time for play. I am also going to take a couple of online classes while the kids are in school.

I have joined a local Mothers club here in Foster City. Its pretty cool. With in the club the have sub clubs for playgroups, workout groups and even a babysitting co-op. Its also a great way for me to get connected to the community. They do alot of outing at local childrens places.

I am looking to sign Jaydon up for Guitar Lessons and Bryce up at the local kids Gym. WE all need extra curricular activities this summer and I am hopeing to keep busy.

ME and My friend Heather took the kids to the Tide Pools a week ago and had a blast. The kids are really interested in Sealife and we live so close to the beach, I try to do things with them there so they can learn and have fun. I will post some pictures of our outing.